The views expressed below are those of the author, and are not necessarily those of Mölnlycke Health Care.
Perhaps the biggest wrench for the parent or carer of a child with eczema is passing on the care of that child to the ‘big school’. It is something that we all have to endure and this is an attempt to make that transition from home or nursery to school as easy as possible. Due to the very nature of the condition eczema can vary in its severity from a small patch of dry skin to extreme cases that require regular hospital admissions. You are about to pass on the care of your child to a teacher who will have experienced eczema but may not have experienced the level of the condition that your child has.
The only way to build an understanding of this is by talking to the class teacher and the head teacher. You have cared for your child on a one-to-one basis, and the class teacher cannot possibly be expected to maintain that level of care. However, they can be instrumental in making sure that you maintain your child’s skin in the best condition possible and ensure that their skin does not deteriorate unnecessarily.
Approach your child’s new class teacher and ask for a meeting/interview/coffee and a chat – depending on the type of person they are. Try to fit in as best you can with their busy schedule – most teachers like to see parents immediately after school, or when (and if) they have a free lesson. You may need to take time off work, but this appointment is as important as any doctor, dentist or hospital appointment you may ever have – it is about your child’s well being as they start school.Make sure that they are aware that you will need about 20 minutes of their time (or longer if necessary) and then right from the start they know there is a lot to cover.
Jane Morgan is a qualified teacher and also North-west Regional Manager for the National Eczema Society. She has three sons, one of whom has had severe eczema. Jane plans further articles about education in the future.
Your class teacher’s experience of eczema may range from an acquaintance’s baby having a bit of eczema, and therefore wondering why you need to speak to them, through to having already dealt with a child with severe eczema.
Your list should include:
Make friends with the teacher during your meeting. You will probably need to make regular contact with them during the time your child is in their class, so it is important to build a mutually understanding relationship.
Make sure that the time you have picked is appropriate and they have plenty of time for you to explain – this is important and you must not be made to feel rushed.
Make a list of the things that you need to mention.
Carefully go through the salient points, at the same time emphasising that there are strategies we can use to overcome most of the difficulties.
The main aim is to make sure that your child is not made to feel different from the other children by ‘missing out’, at the same time ensuring that their eczema is not exacerbated by misunderstandings. Make sure that the teacher points out to the class that eczema is not contagious, and discusses some of the problems the child with eczema may encounter from other pupils. It is crucial that the class understands that a person with eczema is an ordinary person, just like everyone else and that people’s reactions can be a bigger nuisance than the eczema itself.
It is natural for you to worry but essential that your child is unaware of your fears. It will be impossible for your child to receive the one-to-one attention that you have given them until now but, by working as a team with the teacher and classroom assistants, together you should be able to make your child’s time in school a happy time.
As your child progresses, pre-empt possible problems with tests, examinations and assessments. Explain that eczema can be aggravated by stress. Establish what special dispensations may be available to children with medical conditions, for example:
In all these cases, application must be made to the appropriate examination boards via the school.
Most children can cope well in mainstream school by paying special attention to their physical comfort and well-being. A child is only regarded as having ‘medical needs’ if their condition limits their access to education. Most children with eczema should not reach this stage. In these cases the Health and Local Education Authorities should work together to ensure that the pupil has effective support.
However, please note that there is no legal or contractual duty on staff to administer medication. There may be a member of the support staff who has specific duties to provide medical assistance as part of their contract, and in some cases the NHS Trust may provide specialist support.
Whatever arrangements you may come to, it is of the utmost importance that the child is considered at all times. The object of the exercise should be to ensure that the child is cared for and happy so that they progress to the best of their ability in the education system.
Be prepared to explain it all over again whenever your child gets a new teacher!